“Marriage”, which is necessary for the continuation of the generation, is one of the most basic building blocks of society. Marriage, which has a great place in Islam, is expressed as “completing half of the faith”. Specialist Psychologist-theologian Elif Zahide Gök also told Yasemin.com all the curious things about marriage.
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It is the name given to the happy home that a man and a woman establish to spend their lives together. marriage is necessary for the continuation of the generation. Marriage, which is the way of lineage transmission, represents the bond established between spouses. Islam The main basis of marriage, which is also very important for religion; terms such as love, respect, tolerance, communication and individuality. The definition of marriage, one of the most basic building blocks of society, may vary from person to person. Because individuals’ expectations from marriage often differ.
So what is the definition of “Marriage”, the basic building block of society? What are the tricks of the right marriage? Specialist Psychologist-theologian Elif Zahide Gök answered questions about marriage specifically for Yasemin.com readers.
1976, Ankara Born Dr. psychologist-theologian Elif Zahide Gök, Marmara UniversityAfter receiving theology education in , he strived to understand himself and then all other living things. Behavioral sciencesHe studied language. “Communication Skills and Empathy”The expert psychotherapist, who completed his master’s degree in psychology with his thesis at the same university, with the insistence and encouragement of his professors at the university. Dogus UniversityHe started his career by completing his Clinical Psychology education in .
WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE?
Elif Zahide Gök underlined that the definition of marriage may vary from person to person and briefly talked about marriage as follows:
“Marriage actually has very different definitions. The ideal marriage varies for everyone. Depending on personality structure, society, culture… Marriage is not a salvation. Marriage should not be about waiting for all the problems in our lives to be solved after finding a person. You know, those great loves, hormonal increases , with that high dose of electricity, a decision should be made immediately and what should not be done.”
WHAT ARE THE TIPS FOR A PROPER MARRIAGE?
The trick to a right marriage is; Gök said that it is about knowing what we want and what we do not want and knowing how flexible we can be in which areas.He made the following statements about this issue:
“We encounter such a person that defines us correctly and completes us in many respects, but of course, everything is not perfect. If the other person has some characteristics that we do not like, can we bend there? How patient can we be? Or how can we find a common way to resolve it? After seeing these “We may have made the right marriage.”